what on earth would we flame you for
you haven't given us anything to flame you for...... yet :P
now to your 7mge
just get a new stock gasket from toyota & brand new head bolts form toyota or you could spend the money and get arp head studs.... either way should work well
when you torque the head down... ignore toyotas 58ft lbs... torque it to 75ft lbs and you shouldn't blow it again
just make sure your block surface is very very clean and send your head off to the reconditioner to get checked for flatness etc
if it all checks out flat an all start slappin it together
i've posted on this forum somewhere :unsure: bout the na/t conversion which is fairly popular or you can just swap in the 7mgte 3.0T motor
if ya wanna know any more feel free to ask