well id like to say thanks for everyones help once again, i would also like to put that it ended up being a missfireing, 4 spark plugs were F$%ked up and my wires where pretty shot, put some new ones in last night and its running like a champ, my performance shop also plugged the 3000 pipe up with a lug nut, and left the other one to the air filter unplugged and it doesnt bog or cut nothing runs like a champ, and i love that great feeling of pushing on the throttle fully
and now the BOV is even working. i think i need more boost though the BOV is a low pitch sound, like someone with their mouth wide open and blowing out still better than it was