OMG I finally think I found the problem. I got this wild hair to open up the ECU and I found a resistor that was burned up. Im so happy words cant even begin to describe. I had to stare at the ECU for about 10 mins before I saw it. I literally jumped out of my car and ran around the parking lot. lol All the others are blue and the one burned up is white with black burn marks under underneath and from the edges of the resistor down the wires to the circut board. Here a pic my cameras kinda fuzzy but you can see the difference.