okay i tried the unlock and lock from the passanger side and she still wont start. i replaced the starter about a week b4 the alarm went off. could tht have anything to do w/ it.

Nope
 

Starter swap would not have anything to do with it. Did you try disconnecting the negative cable to the battery terminal for 20 mins and then reattach to reset the computer?

Yea
 

Ive disconnected the negative cable for 20 minutes. and as soon as the negative cable touches the negative terminal the alarm starts to go off again.

U need to have the ground on first I think and it should go off

Yes!!!!
 

Okay so i got frustrated bout my car not startin, so i went to the beach to relax and brain storm. i was there for a week and of course when i got home i went outside unlocked the door got in and she started right up, dont know how and not really concerned about it. so to everyone tht gave me advice i deeply appreciate it.

Ooops
 

Unfortunately it will more than likely happen again sounds like that frustrating alarm problem, my Dad has the same thing on his. Don't get freaked if it happens again.