i find out today this guy lives in or around san bernardino, ca. he just bought a house, and the reason im here, hes crashed a supra but got another one afterwards. my girl and i talked a lot about this situation and she decided she wants to stay with me but she wants this dude as a friend still. ill do my best to trust her but i wanted to take any chances of finding this guy and talking to him man to man. thanks for any help

and he works at a casino. with my gf...

hmmmmm, it could be me

nah i aint crashed my supra lol

no one can "steal" your gf. if she goes its on her own. he cant put a gun to her head and say "stay wit me". it all depends on the trust for her. if she goes with him some time or another, she wasnt worth the effort you put into her. love is thicker than any material in the universe....it can bond the entity inside you.